Aphrodisiac Herbs for Valentine's Day

Feb 12, 2024

Revitalizing Passion: The Holistic Power of Herbal Aphrodisiacs

Numerous herbs have been historically used to support sexual health, underscoring the importance of adopting a holistic approach that encompasses the entire body. This includes the nervous and cardiovascular systems, hormonal balance, and the functionality of the reproductive organs. Viewing aphrodisiac herbs through this comprehensive lens reveals their capacity to do much more than simply ignite desire. They serve to nourish and strengthen both body and spirit. By enhancing blood flow, they support physical arousal and performance. Simultaneously, they nurture the heart and sacral chakras, enriching the experiences of pleasure and connection

In this fast-paced world, where the demands of daily life often overshadow our deepest human connections, turning to the gentle power of nature to rediscover and reignite our passions can be a profound journey back to ourselves and each other. Herbal aphrodisiacs offer more than a fleeting spark to deeper intimacy and renewed vitality, they ground us in the present and reconnect us to the ancient rhythms of love and life. As we embrace these natural allies, we not only awaken our dormant desires but also cultivate a richer, more harmonious relationship with our own bodies and with those we love. In nurturing our holistic well-being and embracing the natural world's gifts, we find the keys to a more fulfilled and passionate existence, making every moment—even amidst life's chaos—a chance to celebrate the enduring power of love.

Herbal Love Potion

In the realm of herbal aphrodisiacs, the diverse array of plants available caters to a wide range of needs, enhancing romantic experiences through their distinct energizing, strengthening, calming, and relaxing properties. These botanicals offer a holistic approach to intimacy, allowing individuals and couples to choose the path that best suits their current state and desires. 

For those who may feel tired or lack vitality, energizing and strengthening aphrodisiacs can provide a much-needed boost, invigorating the body and heightening physical sensations. 

Alternatively, if nervousness or performance anxiety is present, calming and relaxing aphrodisiacs are ideal for soothing the mind and easing tensions, fostering a peaceful environment conducive to deeper emotional connections. Understanding one's needs and selecting the appropriate type of aphrodisiac can significantly enhance the romantic experience, making it possible to achieve the perfect balance for a magical and memorable Valentine's Day.

Energizing & Strengthening Aphrodisiacs

  • Adaptogens - Nurturing & Strengthening: 
    • Herbs: Ashwagandha, Ginseng, Maca. 
    • Function: These herbs provide deep nourishment and enhance overall vitality, helping to tone and fortify the body for improved function.
  • Stimulants - Invigorating & Empowering
    • Herbs: Damiana, Ginkgo, Horny Goat weed.
    • Function: Known for their energizing effects, these herbs stimulate the body and mind, enhancing strength and arousal for heightened sexual energy.
  • Cardiovascular Support: 
    • Herbs: Hawthorn Berry, Beet Juice, Olive Leaf.
    • Function: Focused on cardiovascular wellness, these herbs support heart health, promoting robust circulation and also support the energetics of the emotion of love.

Balancing & Calming Aphrodisiacs

  • Nervines - Calming & Mood Enhancing
    • Herbs: Milky oats, passionflower, kava.
    • Function: These herbs specialize in relaxing the nervous system, to allay nervous tension and get the mind into the perfect mood for intimacy and connection.
  • Hormonal Balance - Harmonizing & Regulating:
    • Herbs: Black Cohosh, Dong Quai, Fenugreek.
    • Function: These herbs play a crucial role in harmonizing and regulating hormonal levels, supporting a healthy reproductive system and enhancing sexual well-being and mood stability.
  • Mood and sensory enhancers
    • Herbs: Rose, Jasmine, Ginger
    • Function:These aromatic and stimulating herbs play a key role in elevating mood and enhancing sensory experiences. Rose and Jasmine, with their intoxicating fragrances, soothe the nervous system and uplift the spirit.  Ginger, stimulates the senses and invigorates the body with warming properties that can contribute to a heightened sense of alertness and vitality.

"Intimacy is not purely physical. It's the act of connecting with someone so deeply, you feel like you can see into their soul." - Reshall Varsos

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Our Favorite Herbal Love Recipes

Lover's Beet Latte


  • 1 cup almond milk
  • 1 Tbsp cacao, plus a sprinkle for garnish
  • 1 tsp of Freeze-dried Beet Powder
  • ½ tsp. powdered maca
  • ½ tsp. powdered Ashwagandha
  • A pinch of dried powdered cardamom
  • 1 tsp of maple syrup
  • Rose petals for garnish


  1. Gently warm the milk in a saucepan, whisk in the cacao, freeze-dried beet powder maca, ashwagandha, cardamom, and maple syrup until the mixture is smooth.
  2. Pour into a cup and garnish with a sprinkle of cacao powder and rose petals.
  3. Share this drink with someone special, every sip is a reminder that love, in its many forms, is the richest brew of all. 💖☕
Beet Cacao Latte

Aphrodisiac Bliss Balls


  • 2 Tablespoons Finely Ground Maca
  • 2 Tablespoons Finely Ground Damiana
  • ¼ Teaspoon Ground Cardamom
  • ¼ Teaspoon Ground Cinnamon
  • ¾ cup Almond Butter
  • ½ cup Tahini
  • ¼ cup Maple Syrup
  • ¼ cup Dried Fruit - Dates, Goji berries etc.
  • Cocoa powder for dusting


  1. Mix Ingredients: In a bowl, blend herb powders, dried fruit, nut butter, tahini, and maple syrup into a sticky, uniform mixture.
  2. Shape: Form the mixture into balls, moistening hands if needed to prevent sticking.
  3. Finish: Roll balls in cocoa powder then place on a parchment tray.
  4. Set: Chill in the refrigerator for at least 1 hour to firm up.
  5. Enjoy: Serve as a nutritious romantic treat.
Beet & Cacao Bliss Balls

Featured Product - Freeze-dried Beet Juice

Beet juice stands as a celebrated natural aphrodisiac, thanks to its high content of dietary nitrates that the body converts into nitric oxide, a key compound for widening blood vessels and enhancing circulation throughout the body, including the genital areas. This improved blood flow is crucial for boosting sexual and erectile function in men and increasing arousal and natural lubrication in women. 

The process of freeze-drying beet juice preserves these dietary nitrates at their peak, ensuring that every serving offers optimal support for cardiovascular health and sexual wellness. In addition to promoting blood flow, beet juice is packed with antioxidants and essential minerals like magnesium, which safeguard the cardiovascular system and aid in maintaining heart health. 

The concentrated form of freeze-dried beet juice delivers these benefits in a potent dose, elevating overall well-being and sexual health without the inconvenience of juicing fresh beets. This makes freeze-dried beet juice a superior choice for those looking to naturally enhance their intimate experiences. Its ability to boost physical stamina and energy levels further contributes to endurance, underscoring its reputation as a powerful, natural aphrodisiac and making it a favored option for improving vitality and deepening connections.

Here is a couple's meditation for Valentine's Day: A beautiful ritual that deepens the bond between partners, blending emotional, spiritual, and physical connections. By synchronizing breath and intentions, it cultivates a profound intimacy that transcends the body and connects the souls.

Couples Tantric Meditation: Uniting Breath and Spirit

Introduction: This meditation is a journey of deep connection, designed to bring couples closer not just physically but on an emotional and spiritual level. By synchronizing your breath and focusing on mutual energy, you create a shared space of intimacy and understanding.

Setting the Space: Choose a quiet, comfortable place where you won't be disturbed. Sit facing each other, knees touching if possible, and hold hands. Dim the lights, light some candles, and perhaps diffuse some essential oils to create a serene atmosphere.

The Meditation:

  1. Eye Gazing: Begin by gazing into each other's eyes, without speaking, for a few moments. Let any thoughts or distractions gently fade away as you focus solely on your partner.

  2. Synchronized Breathing: Both partners close their eyes. Start to synchronize your breathing: one inhales while the other exhales, and then reverse. Continue this breath cycle, feeling the rise and fall of your partner's chest against yours, creating a rhythm together.

  3. Heart Connection: Place your right hand on your partner's heart and their right hand on yours. Feel the heartbeat, warmth, and energy emanating from their heart center to yours. As you breathe in sync, imagine a bright light flowing between your hearts, strengthening your bond and love.

  4. Affirmations of Love: Softly open your eyes, maintaining the hand on heart connection. Take turns to express affirmations or qualities you admire in each other. Speak from the heart and listen deeply when it's your partner's turn.

  5. Closing the Meditation: Share a gentle hug, acknowledging the sacred space you've created and the deeper connection you've fostered. Sit in silence together for a few moments, basking in the energy of your united spirits.

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Chris Alstat

The Author: Christine Alstat

Meet Christine Alstat, an internationally acclaimed naturopath and herbalist of Japanese heritage, whose profound expertise in plants and natural health has garnered recognition worldwide. As the dedicated CEO and owner of Eclectic Herb, Christine seamlessly intertwines her deep-rooted commitment to the Earth with her business, cultivating a space where her passion for plants is ever in full bloom. Her influential voice on herbal wisdom resonates across the globe through publications and panels, reflecting a lifetime commitment to nurturing both the plant kingdom and the earth.

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